You Can Overcome Insecurities
By Janet Grace Ortigas

We all experience insecurities and it could either be in our relationship with our partner, family, friends, and the kind of life we we're born with, the environment we live in, or even the way we look. We get insecure when we don't have enough money, when we see happy and successful people, or when we don't get the dream job we want. We feel stressed, worried, and miserable and we don't know why we get very sensitive and defensive, we talk too much, and get too competitive at work, get too materialistic, and sometimes even go as far as hating and bossing other people around. The more we feel insecure, the more it affects our confidence, and self-esteem, and we don't know that this affects the people in our lives. Overcoming our insecurities is a great challenge and but it is possible if we use the Law of Attraction to guide us with the secrets we need to do to win over these difficulties.

There are many reasons why people become insecure but it only means one thing – they don't feel good about themselves. Some of their insecurities were the outcome of childhood trauma like they come from a broken family, abandoned by their parents, and they felt that no one cares about them and no one will help, and they have no place to turn to. Some of them were badly teased at school when they were kids and were called retarded, stupid, or immature which left an emotional scar. I was insecure and felt vulnerable for a couple of years when I got very ill, and had to leave my job and nobody cared at all. It was a horrible feeling and it was not good but I was determined to change it because I knew that it can happen to anyone. What I did was I looked into myself, and see what I like about me, and when I was able to gain enough confidence, I applied for another job and made it as Assistant Administrative Manager in one of the 5 star hotels in Manila. I guess my secret was, I did not allow myself to drown in misery, self-pity, and insecurity because I knew I had more to live for.

You should know by now how the Law of Attraction works: the universe brings back whatever energy you send out to it through the power of vibration. The logic is pretty simple in that positive energy brings positive events, while negative energy brings unfavorable circumstances. By changing your awareness and filling your conscious and unconscious mind with positive thoughts you will be able to overcome insecurities. Visualize your life without inadequacies and make powerful affirmation of your desires so that it will manifest into your reality. Develop a positive attitude by being with people who are positive in their orientation, and share the same beliefs with you because they can boost your confidence. Trust in your own capabilities, and stop questioning why your life is different from other people, and start being grateful for your blessings instead.

It's never too late for you to change your attitude towards yourself and others. It is all up to you to decide when to start planning your journey towards change. The universe is just there waiting, and only you can manifest a life without stress, fear, and anxiety caused by your insecurities. Learn more about Mastering the Law of Attraction by visiting http://www.thesecretoflifebydesign.com.

Janet Grace Ortigas is a freelance writer and online blogger

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