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The Negative Emotion of Hatred and Ways to Right It!

09/24/2010 6:55:00 AM

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Hatred is a negative vibration, where you will find your body literally in a state of great stress, and readiness for sickness. I know it is easy to feel at first, like we might like to hate someone, but it is really, a very negative, and unhelpful emotion. Effectively, when we do hate someone, the only real issue is that we project all that negative energy straight back onto ourselves.

It's a negative emotion to eliminate, and by learning to channel that energy, we can better achieve the results that we need to for our best outcomes. However, it should be noted that we simply can not progress when we are in a state oh hate. It really is a negative vibration that we need to work at removing.

It's probably the most destructive. Caused by ignorance and not the opposite of love, as being indifferent is the opposite of love. Hatred is super destructive force and emotion.

It's not a good idea. Look at what happens when you are that negative. Its like being negative on negative, an internalised emotion.  It's a cancerous imagination, really bad as this creates your vibration in a negative way. You then send that energy out, and you get it back…

You see, whilst it may seem complex, the very fact is that the more that we think we are a certain way, that is the way we become. Hence, when we feel hatred to another person or person,s that hate, emotion, and anger are all generated in us, like a time bomb, waiting to go off. It is not a good place to be in at all, and one I highly recommend you work hard to neutralize.

 

Your logical next question might be how to do this?


This is where I so passionately advocate the use of quiet contemplative time, where I will meditate, or think of the teachings of the Success Principles I am so convinced have worked for me and many others.


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I can only suggest you take this point to heart, and release, by forgiveness, and meditation, all and any hatred you may have. Not only will you feel better, but as a bonus, you are more than likely to see other improvements in your life as well.


You have everything negative to lose, and so much more to gain!




 

 

 


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The 7 Positive Emotions for Prosperity

09/21/2010 9:43:00 AM

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When it comes to prosperity, we have both negative and positive emotions. I have listed some of the more common negative emotions in a previous post, and wanted to concentrate on the positive emotions today. After all, whilst I feel it is a good idea to be aware of the negative ideas, we need to also know about, and practice the positive ideas for success.

The seven positive emotions are:


  • Desire
  • Faith
  • Love
  • Sex
  • Enthusiasm
  • Romance
  • Hope

Now, again, therese are by no way a complete list of possible emotions, but you will be aware that these are all very powerful emotions that can lead you to great results and success in your life, given their power.

 

I will b expanding on these emotions in coming days in much greater detail, but wanted to present a general summary for you today to at least consider, so that you can better manage your thoughts and feelings.


The fact is that we can achieve almost super human results when we are charged with these emotions,


Consider love as an example. 

Have you ever read stories of people who have endured massive pain, risk, and danger to be with their loved ones, or the determination fire that it can light in your heart when you want to do something for someone that takes all your effort?

You may be in a situation where you work extra hard, and are determined, because you know you have a goal to meet, or reach.


This is all intertwined with faith and desire as well.


Desire, being the determination to get something, achieve something, or do something, and faith, being the belief that you have what it takes, and more to achieve it, even if others feel you may not.


This is a key point to note as well, as it does not matter what other people say in terms of what you can do or not. It is about your ability to believe and see or visualize in your mind's eye. If you can do that, then you are more than half way there, as faith is a powerful force.

 

My aim here, (and I repeat it often), is to give you a combination of the tools for success, as well as a constant update and goal structure to work by. After all, you need to learn to have faith by your reading, and your steady experiences to reach the point where you no longer just believe, but know. It is the knowing that will bring you forth to the point that you wish to be at.

 

 

 

 

 

Another source of information is the Forgotten Laws website- a website on the concept of attraction. This is the same idea as the material I am presenting here, but simply presented differently. I am not wanting to over load you, but rather provide a series of resources for you to consider. At the end of the day, I want to let you know the ideas, and prove they have worked, and continue to work for me. In the same way, they absolutely will work for you, when you embrace them, and work them for yourself. 


I have met many people who have been aimless, in the sense that they knew they had issues, but never followed through on anything.

Please be focused, and determined. Success comes to those who persevere forward. The above emotions are a great way to start forward in this way.

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Does Business Success Tie In with Mental Thinking?

09/7/2010 12:18:00 PM

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This is a great question, and one I will enjoy answering, and expanding on. The short answer is a resounding Yes!  How does this work, you may well ask.


Let's look at this from a few perspectives of consideration. For a start, I would like to point out that there are other factors that are very important in business success, like product or service delivery, quality of client care, and so on. However, in addition to this, there is the issue of the way you, as the business owner, and manager are thinking. This is the point I wish to focus on for this article, and consideration right now. As I have said over and over, if you think you can, you certainly can, Equally, if you think you can't, then that is true too. 

The quality of results that we attract to us are the result of the thinking we are engaging in, on a consistent basis. Let's face it. I know that when I am driving, I am thinking, when I am relaxing, I am thinking, and so on, This happens to most of us. I know I could be sarcastic at this point, but prefer to be very serious, in suggesting that the way we perceive our selves is critical to the results we enjoy, or not…


I want to very strongly instill the point that it is so important to imaginer, and picture the result as that you want. I know it is easy to become discouraged when things are looking tough, and can certainly say I have been there. I can also say it is a place to avoid, at all costs, and it for that  reason that I focus on the results I do want. 


You know, it takes no more effort to picture the result you do want, than the negative option. This is because the subconscious does not know the difference. It simply works to deliver what you expect and are thinking about. 


Does this mean that you just think of something good and it happens? Not quite. However, the way you think does permeate into the results of all you do, through your various actions through the day. It may not seem obvious, but it really does work this way. It is explained by many people, including Napoleon Hill in his book titled Think and Grow Rich. It is also the basis for the Success in Six Minutes a Day System devised by Bob Proctor. This is a system that I use myself, as I have learned that to succeed, I need to walk as I talk, and train myself to always be aiming as high as possible as well. This is a vital cog in the wheel to go for as well.

 

It comes down to being as we think. In other words, it is important to ensure we are studying the best trends, and that we are looking at all the best ways to get things done. However, it is important not to allow ourselves to fall into the trap where we accidentally only study, and never do. I know I have been in that trap once or twice before as well. I choose to commit everything to paper, and set out to do one thing at  a time. It is imperative to do this to move ahead.

Essentially, your success is dependent on your thinking, Yes, you will have ups and downs, but overall, you will still be moving up.

 

I can assure you.

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The Importance of Putting Our Goals In Perspective and Holding onto Real Vision

08/19/2010 9:04:00 PM

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Yes, I know the title is quite a deal, but really, I wanted to ensure that we are really putting all our thoughts and issues into perspective. You know what it's like, when you may at times seem to be overwhelmed with all the events of the day, and any concerns you may have. I think this is where we need to get real focused again, and concentrate on our real pictures or images of the way we want to be and where we want to be.


Let's look at this another way.


How often have you been discouraged when you started something, and then found it was not going as well as you hoped? I certainly know I've been caught out on this one. I think I could say with reasonable accuracy that you have as well, as we all have been caught out from time to time. After all, we are all human. However, I deal with this by writing out my goals, and ensuring that I am very focused, and sure to see them as achievable, and more importantly, as achieved.

I think of a quote I came across to explain this better…

 

 

“Not only do affirmations impress the subconscious mind thus producing action in accordance with the Will, but they project outwards from the mind into space, attract forces and help from other sources and bring them to minister and to bless.”
—Henry Thomas Hamblin, Dynamic Thought, 1921


Consider this and think about it…



As a side note, I wanted to let you know about a caricature and artistic site I know of, with works by Murray Smoker. I really enjoyed the pictures.


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Understanding and Conquering Fear – A Stepped Approach

07/11/2010 9:21:00 PM

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All of us experience fear from time to time, across a range of different situations in our lives. However, we need to actually start off by taking the time to really sit down, and analyse what we are fearful or scared of.

 

 

I say this, because it is not always what we think at first, but rather what we are scared will happen as a result of doing what we think we are scared of.

Yes, this is a mouthful, but understand, I know what I am talking about, as I have overcome numerous fears in my life, and can wholeheartedly understand the symptoms of fear in different people.

Let me give you an example.

Whilst this may seem really funny for many people, for others who fall into the category of being shy, you will no doubt appreciate the full feelings of terror and fear when asking someone of the opposite sex out, particularly, if you are a teenager, or young adult.

Have you ever wondered what the real fear is? I can tell you that it is the fear of rejection. No one likes being rejected, but I fully understand that it is a terrifying experience if you are young and shy.

Anyway, to expand on this further, imagine pacing in front of the phone for an hour or two, then picking it up, starting to dial, and immediately putting it down again. You may even justify your actions by saying to yourself that you can't call now, as you may interrupt dinner, or perhaps, now they are watching their favourite TV soap program, and so on. Essentially, this may go on for several days, and then, you may compound this by writing your questions down, so you do not forget your lines. I know this sounds really ridiculous, but I also know that these are fears that people can go through, because I have been there as a teenager.

However, the good news with fear, is that to get over it, you simply have to do what you are scared of doing.

There are ways around this, and of approaching your fears, in a logical and stepped way, so that you are more likely to not only do what you are scared of, but more importantly, actually get over your handicap. I specifically call fear a handicap, as it can with hold you from enjoying life to the fullest, and that is a shame.

You need to analyse your fears, and genuinely ask yourself what consequences you are scared of. Only then, will you be more likely to get over your fear, by applying a rational worst-case outcome, and then planning on how to deal with it. This is one of only a series of options available to you.

In addition, you may even find that your achievements and potential are seriously limited by not getting out in the world and doing what you on one hand know you can do, but are scared to approach, for fear of failure. You need to ask yourself what is the worst thing that can happen to you if you fail at what you want to do. I addition, many people who have succeeded in life, had many failures on their way to their respective successes.

To learn more about conquering your fear and living the life of your dreams.


 

In addition, it is als beneficial to understand and control our emotions as well as work on our self confidence development.

 

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