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Working with, and Applying the Laws of the Secret to Actually Work in Your Life

03/26/2010 4:53:00 AM

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This page is the start of the rest of your life.

I know it is a big statement, but I really want to help you move to the next level here…

You may have heard of the Secret, or You may have missed it, but either way, let’s look at how you can make a difference with it, in your life.

The Secret was a movie made in the early 2000′s, by Rhonda Burns and included highly respected speakers including Bob Proctor.

I have gleaned a great deal of benefit from Bob Proctor’s teachings, including his Success Strategy System Course.

I use his material for a few minutes each day, to ensure that I am regularly on course, and doing the best I can to meet all my goals.

Your Success- in Universal Terms

Now, the Secret DVD which was released around six years ago, was a hit sensation, around the world, many people felt that it simply did not give enough information, and at most, only wet the appetite, with out the complete answer to many people’s questions about life, and the laws of the universe to maximise their fullest potential.

Now, having studied these laws in deeper detail, as well as having applied them to my life, I feel better prepared to write about my experiences, and hope to give you an insight that will be helpful to you in achieving your desires and dreams.

I will be writing progressively on a daily basisi, to keep you updated with ideas and concepts to think about.

Most importantly, it is important that you apply what you learn, for it to make a difference in your life.

I have fallen for that trap wher I attend seminars, buy materials, and do not act on them.

I realized I has to act, to see and appreciate a difference in my life.

Essential Information regarding the Forgotten Laws

Your results in life will depend on your thoughts as well as your actions.

I know that this may seem obvious, but it can be very well worth mentioning, and reminding yourself of this point often.

I Experienced a Surprise Meeting with Exceptional Outcomes

To best illustrate this point, I was asked to attend a meeting regarding a book I was transcribing, and putting online for a friend, and as that meeting closed, one of the participants had asked about my skills and her website creation requirements. From that one meeting, that I was reluctant to go to, but did, came great benefit, in the form of extra commissions for work, as wel as the possibility of helping another organisation solve some of their technical problems.

In my case, the circumstances worked out well, as they wanted someone who could work at short notice, and as I work for myself, that was a perfect arrangement.

It is only a small example, but I think you can see how this can easily make a difference.

To learn more about the 11 Forgotten laws, head over here.

I will write more on this subject tomorrow, as part of an ongoing series of articles.


Understanding the Real Secret Behind Abundance

03/25/2010 10:42:00 AM

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We are surrounded by abundance.

The issue we all need to undersatand is how to see it, and then attract it to our lives, as a fundamental part of our life.

There is no lack. Only in our minds.

We need to release our tension, take deeper breaths, and realise that we can increase our field of magnetism. By releasing the uptightness, we release our fear, as fear acts as a repulsion to our highest good.

Over the next several months, I am going to be writing very detailed posts to this blog, as I am determined to assist you to see, and understand the way that your can change your world.

The first step, however, is to ensure that you are picturing or visualising, in your mind, a clear image of your desired good.

Stop Begging! Start Manifesting

I have added this post below, to ensure that you are able to appreciate the incredible power of the Secret, but imagine it on steroids, with these further 11 laws explaining it in greater detail.

Do you remember that first spark of hope you felt when you watched The Secret? I clearly remember the desire that filled my heart, knowing that – Yes, I can make my dreams come true – FINALLY!

But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration? How many of you (and be honest now) started muttering things like:

- “It seems to work for other people, but I just can’t get it right.”

- “I’m frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I can’t. What’s the trick?”

- “Why am I having so much trouble?”

- “I think the universe is against me.”

- “I’m trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!”

Don’t worry, you’re not alone. About 97% of people also couldn’t make the Law of Attraction work for them the first time round. Think about it, just like anything else, you have to practice many times before you see success. A child doesn’t learn to walk without falling over a couple of times, right?

But in practice, everything is easier said and done. When you’re frustrated, it’s hard to stay positive. And it’s especially harder to stay positive when the evidence all around you is screams negativity like the unstable economy or senseless acts of violence such as those recently seen in Mumbai.

And do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive? That’s right – you start attracting negative things in to your life.

So how can you make the Law of Attraction work for you – without getting frustrated? How do those who successfully implement the Law of Attraction do it with such confidence and finesse?

Well, here’s three quick tips so you will never feel frustrated or tired of begging from the universe, because you know how to start manifesting like a pro.

1. Allow Yourself To Receive

Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks, “Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you?” Well, if the child goes on and on asking, the police officer can’t even give an answer, right?

Well, it’s the same thing with your mind. If the only thing your mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe — which is trying to respond — can’t give you a single thing because you’re not allowing yourself to receive!

So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by running around person to person begging for riches, and then wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: It’s because you’re running away too fast for them before they can even reach for their wallets).

Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it is you asked for) when the time is right.

2. Be Patient With Yourself

Receiving takes time.

Sadly, many people give up just a couple of steps before the finish line because they’ve decided that if it’s not working by now, it’s never going to work at all. Worse still are those who throw in more and more energy because they think that with more resources, the results will come faster.

This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in 1 month. You also can’t bake cookies in half the time by doubling the temperature. You’ll incinerate those cookies to ashes!

In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it.

So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you cannot change the natural development time.

If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.

3. Support and Educate Yourself

Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You also need to guidance on how to do it, and also the role models to look up to.

Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the “be all and end all” solution. Well, it’s NOT. “The Secret” is just a small portion. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole answer.

Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself with fried foods and cheesecakes).

So seek and be hungry for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be amongst people or communities where you can support each other, learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have found.

While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service, it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!

Check out the site here – go to The 11 Forgotten Laws of Life Success.


Success Strategies for Life

03/21/2010 6:10:00 AM

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Living a Life of Your Dreams

Hi there today.

I have great news for you…

You often may have dreamt of the things you want and to do in your life.

Well, what if you changed that around from dreaming into reality?

I am not going to hype anything up at all, but rather tell you my thoughts and better still, show you the actions I apply to make my life the life it is today, of success, happiness, and fulfillment.

Yes, it is about action, doing, getting out of bed with a leap in your step, and really getting things done.

I have met and spoken with many people, many of them like you, with dreams, hopes desires. All very normal stuff here. However, many of these people go to the grave still dreaming, and not having achieved much of that which was in their daily dreams.

Now, if you think I have crushed your bubble. fear not,. I am here to prick your bubble, in the expectation of moving you to a point of achievement, success, and reflection of how well you are doing, and can still go….

How is that for a thought process?

I thought that would be rather nice.

Now, enough of the dreaming. Let’s get on with it.

This is where the Success Strategy System that I use, and have proven works, comes in.

You really need to use a guiding system, daily, in order to create a habit.

Following a habit for 21 days, will reinforce it, and it will become something that you will do without further thinking, in a good way, in this case.

I am reffering to setting up a positive habit, which is the same effort required to set up a bad one. So, we may as well do the right thing, and get ourselves on the right track.

I am really happy with the results I am getting from the Success in Six Minutes Program-

Let me tell you about the benefits.

You will be more focused, such that your energy will be used in a direction of your choosing, and not spread across so many wasted areas, that seemingly nothing gets done.

Do you remember ever doing a project you really wanted to get done?  An example might be painting the walls in your house.

I know when I did this, I got so engrossed, that I only slept a few hours, as I was so motivated to get the job done.

It took me just over a week to paint the whole house, and I felt really good about the job at the end. It is similar with the Six Minutes to Success System.

You wil be shown how to get so fired up that you just move forward, like a laser, with focus that is finely pointed.

Do you see the results in your mind’s eye that you can achieve here with this attitude?

I think you can see where I am coming from.

Another example is when I wanted to complete a [rpject online,as I wanted to start helping others see results, and receive their positive feedback.

Kindof like this entry.

I hope to assist you to be more motivated, and move in the direction that you desire.

We all have so much potential. How many times have you heard that phrase, or similar?  Well, let’s kick some butt, (pardon the expression), and move in the direction of our dreams, to become our dreams.

Do you have a burning Why?  Something that makes you cry, is a burning why.

I think you get the idea.

I look forward to hearing of your successes, so head today for the sky, and be your very best.

You can doe it. Have faith to initially start, and see, you will get there.

Why not be on the way now?


How Perfectionism Holds You Back From Success

02/4/2010 12:45:00 PM

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Perfectionism is an insidious habit that cloaks itself in good intentions. After all, we all want to do the best we can at whatever we do, right? However, at the root of perfectionism is fear: fear that whatever you attempt will never be good enough or will never measure up to the (sometimes impossibly) high standards you set for yourself. At the heart is the fear that you will fail.

Perfectionism will cause you to put off your dreams and plans, sometimes forever. The perfectionist says, “I will begin when… all conditions are right… I have enough money… or enough knowledge… or enough confidence… ”

At other times, perfectionism will cause you to procrastinate so long that you have no choice but to do a mediocre job because, well, it wasn’t going to be good enough anyway. That way you have an excuse for your project turning out “below par,” just as you predicted. After all, you didn’t have enough time or resources, right?

Or perfectionism will keep you working on a project forever, ensuring that you never finish it. You will always find something that could be improved or tweaked. There will always be something not quite right about it that hinders you from presenting your work to the world. But you are safe from having it judged and of course that’s the most important thing.

I know of what I speak. Perfectionism likes to show up in my life in my “addiction” to learning. My natural inclination is to try to know everything humanly possible about whatever I want to do before giving it a try. Now curiosity is a treasured part of my personality type and I will always have a love of learning and discovery, but when I use it to hide behind, that’s when it becomes a hindrance to me – keeping me from achieving my goals.

I know they’re cliches, but having these two phrases in mind have really been handy:

• Sometimes done is better than perfect
• Sometimes good is good enough

The world will never be perfect. Your house, your knowledge, your equipment, your bank account, your talent will never be perfect. However, trust that what you need will be “good enough” to begin and keep going.

Consider: How does perfectionism hold you back from from the things you’d like to accomplish or the dreams you hold in your heart? What new thoughts and habits can you cultivate to keep perfectionism from stealing from you anymore?

If you’re a creative individual who’s ready to be totally supported in YOUR plans, goals and the life you’re dreaming of, I invite you to visit me at http://www.LiveYourCreativeLife.com While you’re there, sign up for my informative and inspirational ezine. As an added gift you will receive my 7-part e-course, The 7 Secrets of Creative Success.

Melissa Williams, M.A., Creative Life Purpose and Productivity Coach, works with creative and artistic individuals to discover, embrace and fulfill their creative callings so that they can make an eternal difference, whether in ministry, career or avocation.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Melissa_D._Williams

Resources To Maximize Your Success, and Output

I am only too well aware how difficult it can be to start your days affectively, and keep the right momentum going.

To this end, I regularly apply the Success Strategies System, as well as ensure I am reading the latest self help material, to ensure I am on top of my game.
I have also included a link to the success store, as well as the Control Your Day Product.

Personal Development – Key to Getting What You Want Out of Life

01/31/2010 4:44:00 PM

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Personal development is a way to make the most out of your life. It is a way to set and achieve goals and helps you outline areas in your life that may require some work or effort. Here are a few ways to develop a plan that will help you find what is important to you-and how to move in the direction of success.

First, it is important to determine the key areas that need development. In order to do that, reflect on your life: what are your dreams, goals and aspirations? Write down the top five key areas in your life that mean the most to you. Once you know what is important- you can determine if there is anything standing in your way of improving in those areas. Ask yourself: is there any room for improvement in this area? What is standing in my way of improving in this area? For example: if one of your top 5 goals is to enjoy what you are doing for a living, make a list of what is keeping you from enjoying it: is it the actual work? Is it the fact that you do not actually know what you want to do-you lack focus? Or is it that it just takes too much time away from your family? The answers to the questions will help you realize areas for personal development. I would suggest making a list of the areas of key improvement (top five) and keep it handy so you can refer back to it.

Now that you have identified the area for improvement, find local resources that may assist you in developing in each of the areas that you have identified. Resources can be found in books, in on-line articles, blogs, tapes, seminars, workshops, etc. The important thing is that you identify at least one resource for each key area of improvement and that it is realistic that you will utilize the resource. Personal development is one of the world’s fastest growing industries, so you should have no difficulty in identifying and listing your resources.

From the resources you have found, select one or two of your key areas and write out a growth plan. This can be done on your own using your resources, or can be done by consulting a life coach or personal development professional. The key is to create a plan so that you have steps to follow that are simple and detailed enough to complete. Nothing feels better than being able to see progress toward your goal than actually seeing check marks next to tasks that are needed to finish a project or a plan.

The next step is the step that makes the biggest difference in your personal development and is also the step that is most neglected: set aside one hour a day to dedicate to your personal development. This does not have to be an hour all at one time. It can be 30 minutes in the morning or 30 minutes in the evening-but commit to setting the time aside. This is the time that you will be implementing your growth plan or completing a step from above. It can also be used for reflecting and reading in the area for your development.

Finally, find a mentor or a group of individuals that you can build relationships with that are also on the same path of development. This can help you grow more quickly than any other resource you may find and utilize. Relationships with other like-minded people can bring support and guidance that is beyond anything you could ever do on your own.

Be sure to apply all that you learn. Learning is only meaningful through the use of the knowledge in your life. The key is to take action. New behaviors create new results and new successes, whereas knowledge only increases your pride and doesn’t change your life. If you are looking to change your life, take a step-determine where you can apply your newly found information-and practice it. It really IS that simple.

Brett Dunham is an Internet Marketer and LifePath Unlimited Mentor. Contact information available at: http://www.BrettDunham.com.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Brett_Dunham

Further Ideas

I read, and I act.  I recommend reading something, and then acting on it, and then, a week later, add to your reading and so on.

I highly recommend the Self Help Database for the best books at great prices, that most can afford.  Remember, learn, and act.

I am also a very keen user of, and recommend the Six Minute Success System. It works, and you can apply, and remind yourself of it daily.


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