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Is Happiness Around The Corner?

03/19/2011 5:42:00 PM

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Is Happiness Around The Corner?

 

For lots of people, happiness is just around the corner. They just need to get their degree, a particular job, a promotion, or a raise. Maybe they're waiting to get married or have a child. Perhaps they will be happy when they retire.

Alfred D' Souza said, "For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life." John Lennon put it another way, "Life is what happens while you are making other plans."

The point is our lives are happening now. If we are to get the satisfaction and fulfillment we want, we have to learn to draw pleasure and joy from everything that happens to us and around us because these experiences are the very essence of our life. The more conscious we are that life consists of the journey, not the destination, the more likely we are to get the most out of it.

So, if there are things you want to do, begin to fit them in now or accept the fact that you can be happy whether or not you do them.

Happiness isn't just around the corner. It's now or it's never.??The good news is you have everything you need to be happy. Philosophers, poets, and scientists all agree it can't be attained through money, prestige, or power. Happiness is not a fact, it's a mindset. All you need is optimism and gratitude.

Michael Josephson 
www.charactercounts.org





Success Strategies for Life

03/21/2010 6:10:00 AM

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Living a Life of Your Dreams

Hi there today.

I have great news for you…

You often may have dreamt of the things you want and to do in your life.

Well, what if you changed that around from dreaming into reality?

I am not going to hype anything up at all, but rather tell you my thoughts and better still, show you the actions I apply to make my life the life it is today, of success, happiness, and fulfillment.

Yes, it is about action, doing, getting out of bed with a leap in your step, and really getting things done.

I have met and spoken with many people, many of them like you, with dreams, hopes desires. All very normal stuff here. However, many of these people go to the grave still dreaming, and not having achieved much of that which was in their daily dreams.

Now, if you think I have crushed your bubble. fear not,. I am here to prick your bubble, in the expectation of moving you to a point of achievement, success, and reflection of how well you are doing, and can still go….

How is that for a thought process?

I thought that would be rather nice.

Now, enough of the dreaming. Let’s get on with it.

This is where the Success Strategy System that I use, and have proven works, comes in.

You really need to use a guiding system, daily, in order to create a habit.

Following a habit for 21 days, will reinforce it, and it will become something that you will do without further thinking, in a good way, in this case.

I am reffering to setting up a positive habit, which is the same effort required to set up a bad one. So, we may as well do the right thing, and get ourselves on the right track.

I am really happy with the results I am getting from the Success in Six Minutes Program-

Let me tell you about the benefits.

You will be more focused, such that your energy will be used in a direction of your choosing, and not spread across so many wasted areas, that seemingly nothing gets done.

Do you remember ever doing a project you really wanted to get done?  An example might be painting the walls in your house.

I know when I did this, I got so engrossed, that I only slept a few hours, as I was so motivated to get the job done.

It took me just over a week to paint the whole house, and I felt really good about the job at the end. It is similar with the Six Minutes to Success System.

You wil be shown how to get so fired up that you just move forward, like a laser, with focus that is finely pointed.

Do you see the results in your mind’s eye that you can achieve here with this attitude?

I think you can see where I am coming from.

Another example is when I wanted to complete a [rpject online,as I wanted to start helping others see results, and receive their positive feedback.

Kindof like this entry.

I hope to assist you to be more motivated, and move in the direction that you desire.

We all have so much potential. How many times have you heard that phrase, or similar?  Well, let’s kick some butt, (pardon the expression), and move in the direction of our dreams, to become our dreams.

Do you have a burning Why?  Something that makes you cry, is a burning why.

I think you get the idea.

I look forward to hearing of your successes, so head today for the sky, and be your very best.

You can doe it. Have faith to initially start, and see, you will get there.

Why not be on the way now?


Becoming A WINNER In Life – Making Everything You Do Pay You A Personal Increase Profit

01/26/2010 4:38:00 PM

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When you consider the word win, what comes to mind? Actually, to win, and winning can represent several different aspects. Here are what I feel represent those most targeted and important:

A.) Conquest over – or convincingly outdoing – an opponent

B.) To completely finish what you start

C.) To achieve or produce a decisive success result

D.) To wind up with more than you started out with

E.) Some type, form, or context of victory – or irrefutable triumph

F.) To notably accomplish what you set out to (i.e., to get what you were after)

G.) To wind up better off than you were when you started

H.) To stay the course, and reach your ultimate destination

I.) You demonstrated excellence, peak ability, and masterful effort which, in some way, served to advance you

Each of these, in its own particular way, defines a parameter connected to winning. And the purpose of this article is to help you form the intent to experience one of these factors characterizing your outcomes — in every aspect of your life where sustaining a process, pursuing success, and/or the need to persevere may exist.

Why? Well, first – because you can. And because winning, and to win, can become a habit (a life empowering habit) just the same as you may have allowed in-completion, lesser achievement, and sustaining a predictable status quo to become a habit.

When you eagerly strive to experience one of A-I as your result – or the outcome of efforts you express to improve and advance – that’s when your actions keep moving you ahead in your life.
Experiencing what you want in life. Having what you want in life. Keeping thrill, joy, fulfillment and thorough satisfaction a regular part of your life. These four things naturally occur through having one of A-I define the outcomes you produce.

And how can you set the odds up so that, more times than not, one of A-I does come to define your outcomes? You develop the compelling habit of striving to win. Actually, you develop the unwavering commitment to win; the habit you develop is the commitment-the natural, driving affinity and purpose to:

• Work, and keep working as necessary

• Take full responsibility for all things involving you coming to reach, and/or experience your desired outcome

• Do as much as you possibly can – for as long as you must – in the pursuit of your outcome. (Instead of waiting for, and depending on others to do things involved in you coming to register positive, desired results)

• Be in it for the long haul; you stay as actively involved as you must until you’ve completed the task, or produce/experience a decided success result

• Release lesser desires and involvements (including activities and “dead end” relationships), so that the overwhelming majority of your energy is directed toward one of A-I coming to clearly define your results

• Get things all-the-way done. Here, nothing is done until it’s victory/triumph done. And you willfully, purposefully invest the required time, energy, money and tenacious drive to follow through as you must…until you can justifiably, unequivocally affix the label of “Success Outcome” to the result of your efforts

• Resolve to only accept one of A-I as the definer of your pursuit, process, and/or persistence related efforts – and nothing less. Everything you do is continued until at least one aspect of A-I can conclusively define your result

Until that point — you’re not done. You don’t accept results. You’re not satisfied. You don’t deflect your focus. You’re not comfortable – you don’t take time off, “respites”, or “vacations”. You don’t “put it away and get back to it at some later point”. No. You stay with it, in it, at it…until one of A-I singularly characterizes your results; then you’re done!

Am I asking a lot of you here? Absolutely. Why? Do you want to be like everyone else? Or continue to be the way you’ve always been? Or in the same place six months, or a year from now, that you’re in right now? No? I didn’t think so.

Striving for polished excellence and some context of winning with your actions ensures you won’t; striving on until one of A-I defines your results essentially guarantees you the highest degree of self esteem and personal progress possible.
Why would you do things from now on in ways where you settled for “less” than an A-I result or outcome? Yes, why?!

Because it’s easier? More convenient? What you’re “used to”? Because registering an A-I type result is “beyond” you and your abilities? Come on now; it’s only either habit, as you never thought about outcomes like this before, or you don’t know how to commit to win.
Taking the “easy” way out, or not continuing toward success results because you feel they’re beyond your aptitude gets you nothing but the assurance that you’ll essentially remain right where you’re at — no better, no worse.

But if you were truly satisfied with where you’re at, you wouldn’t be reading the Committed To WIN © article right now – would you!

Is ease, convenience, and/or the allowance of status quo what you “really” want? Or do you want advancement, substance, increase, progress, growth and improvement? I’m thinking you want the latter.

Think of the latter as what awaits you at the top of the success impact staircase. And the quality, strength and results of your every personal action and involvement will determine if you’ll take a step up higher upon this staircase, or not.

The commitment to win, and applying this commitment by only allowing one of A-I to be the acceptable definer of your personal results, ensures you keep stepping up. You make your actions serve you. You continually build yourself up. You naturally, purposefully strive to produce more and greater substance from your efforts. You purposefully sustain your self ascension mode, instead of tolerating “maintenance” mode. You rise up, rise above, make things work out for you – and as such, by your commitment to win, literally mold life (your life) into the shape and dimensions you choose.

Power? You bet; this commitment to win is an extraordinary inner power precursor, catalyst, and generator. Do you want this kind of power? Then ask yourself: “Am I ready to now become committed to win?”

It will cost you noticeably greater effort, follow through and conviction – at degrees you’re not customarily used to generating or expressing. But truly, without these, there is no progress. There is no improvement. There is no growth and ascension. There is no glory. There is only the same thing in the same way. (Is that what you want?!)

It’s time to get off your mental and emotional “same old outcomes” ass, and get into the zone now – the commitment to win zone. Making one of A-I the definer of your personal outcomes applies to every pursuit and process effort you expend – from social, relationship, financial, sports, business, academics, to personal development involvements…everything!

You’re not making a commitment to register results that are just “Ok”, or “good”, or “good enough”, but someone who embodies and demonstrates the singular ideal “I Win!” Only this from now on, is acceptable.

Feels empowering just to read my words and think about this, doesn’t it. Let yourself imagine how it will feel when you’re vibrantly living out the commitment to win (let me tell you something – that’s gonna be a constant power generator for you!)

How do you commit to win? How do you make, embrace and live out this commitment
– to a degree where it becomes your natural affinity? Let me outline an incredible development strategy for you right now.

Making The Commitment To WIN:

Deeply Rooting The Ideals Of Success Action Follow Through And Results

“Is making, then always striving to honor the commitment to win being selfish, insensitive, and/or self centered?” many ask. The answer is, yes. But, in the most positive way imaginable. I call it appropriate selfishness.

Its rudiments are as follows: “If you don’t do for you what you should, can and must – to bring about the life goodness you seek – who then will!”

You’re not doing it to spite, slight, or disregard someone else. You’re honoring the commitment to win (as outlined), to advance and prosper your self.

If you don’t do for you what is required to move ahead, and experience life as you’d like to…rest assured, no one else will do it for you!

Excellence, success – winning – is your choice, and your responsibility. Placing your focus upon registering one of A-I as the definer of your outcomes from now on is, I feel, perhaps one of the most self respecting, self valuing things you can do.

It doesn’t mean to be uncaring or disinterested in your fellow man. It means you sustain interest in your self and your welfare, and the quality of your results  and a continual, purposeful drive toward your success. And you do this to a degree higher, more profound, and more expansive than you ever have before.

The more you do for yourself – the more you produce for yourself – the more you have for yourself – the more you feel good, really good, about yourself. Yeah — that’s when you’re in a position to be of true benefit and help to others. [*But first, though, you must make sure you're in a position to be of decided benefit and help to...you. When you really "got it goin' on", and are progressive and commanding in your action conviction (and results), that's when you can do the most for, and be the most for others. First, you must be it for your self; this ideal represents the very foundation of the commitment to win.]

So, as a target overview, being committed to win is a life and action commitment; you become conscious of purpose, conscious of intent, conscious of outcome…always. And you keep your efforts geared, as are required or called for, until one of A-I comes to clearly define the results from your endeavors.

You remain wholly focused on substantive outcome production, without compromise. And you now regularly strive to do what you must – all of what you must – to register winning realm results, period!

There is no lesser now. There is only this.

Can you do this? Yes. Will you? I believe so through applying the following “Commitment To Win Action Tendency” development strategy.

Developing The Commitment To WIN Action And Results Tendency

The New Philosophy And Attitude:

• From now on your actions are for the express purpose of producing one of A-I as your end result. You act singularly with this idea in mind. You engage actions that can definitively lead to one of A-I becoming a fact (your fact). You now cease from mindless, purposeless actions. You choose instead to engage personal gain, personal advancement, personal increase type actions fueled exclusively by the “commitment to win” attitude.

You clearly have this overview in mind…and you clearly act to honor it; honoring this becomes your very action purpose!

• Effort is now for the purpose of moving yourself toward, and then coming to ultimately experience, one of A-I as your results of action. You keep this continually in mind, and act driven now by its precise, and compelling influence.

You make “having fun” steeped in ultimately experiencing one of A-I as your outcome definer; you direct your energy and will into action expressions intentionally geared toward producing one of A-I as your action result. This is now your commanding motive for all personal effort.

• You now become a sequence, process, progression person. You pre-set your outcomes – for each individual thing you do – and for your overall intended result.

You engage everything you do having what you want to accomplish and/or produce clearly set in your mind. And you then strive to materialize these results; nothing less.

Before you act, you have a specific, detailed end result in mind; you determine, and know where you’re going, and you keep working and acting purposefully until you get there.
This is now your purpose. This is now your focus. Indeed, this is now your unwavering commitment to self, and to your very life.

Pre-Action Personal Triumph Programming

Before you engage or take action now:

1.) Determine your outcome: What do you want to produce; what, specifically, are you striving to demonstrate or accomplish? What are your actions for; what is the overall result you’ll express them toward? (Which of A-I is your intent?)

• Where should – and must – your actions be leading you?

• What is the decisive objective governing why you’re doing what you’re doing?

2.) Once you’ve determined your A-I connected outcome, before you act, say to yourself (and fully mean it) “I know exactly what I’m doing here. I know why I’m doing it; I know, and am dedicated to, the specific result I’ll now strive to produce. With every fiber of my being, down to the very depth of my soul, I now commit to produce a personal victory result – I use my efforts – and the full extent of my power – to now advance myself, and to soundly produce some clear and decisive embodiment of success… And through my determined ability – I now feverishly strive to make decided progress my consummate fact!

“Yes, I now strive to bring forth results clearly demonstrating my total commitment to excellence, my total commitment to purpose – and my tenacious, adamant, uncompromising commitment…to Win!”

3.) Now, filled with this self reinforcing purpose and conviction, start taking targeted action – and keep up your efforts until you’re all-the-way-done with what you’re doing (and can clearly say one of A-I defines your personal outcome). Then, and only then, are your actions in line with the commitment to win.

I encourage you to now apply 1-3 each time before engaging any potentially life building, life enhancing, life advancing action or activity. It will keep you emotionally connected with the commitment to win, and as such, bring out your best efforts and clearly most substantive, commanding results.

Do you want to be like everybody else? Then do what they do, the way they do it. If you want to build, prosper, and gloriously triumph…start now honoring the single-minded Commitment To WIN!

Powerhouse self-help author, life transformation specialist, private clinician, and national TV therapist, Peter C. Siegel, R.H. is the country’s foremost peak performance hypnotherapist, and #1 personal best coach. Go ahead and review his acclaimed PowerMind© national best selling life and mega-success building programs, including Building Super Confidence, Success Mind-Sets, Using Your Stress To Fuel Your Success!, Living Invincibly Positive, Winning At Life, and The Formula© at http://www.incrediblechange.com And while you’re there, you can also sign up to receive your FREE life changing, personal power manual “Taking Fear Out Of Your Future!” Incrediblechange.com is Pete Siegel’s self help/ personal development super site; there you’ll find programs to help you with your personal improvement needs…programs tested, and proven to get you exciting, decisive results!

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Further Ideas

I read, and I act.  I recommend reading something, and then acting on it, and then, a week later, add to your reading and so on.

I highly recommend the Self Help Database for the best books at great prices, that most can afford.  Remember, learn, and act.

I am also a very keen user of, and recommend the Six Minute Success System. It works, and you can apply, and remind yourself of it daily.


Discovering the Power of Positive Thinking

12/4/2009 7:38:00 PM

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It is easier said than done that you are thinking positive – but are you really? Everyone is talking of positive thinking these days and there is a whole library showing ways and means to acquire this knowledge. But in the true sense no one has discovered what it really is. And if you are one of them who have doubts about what positive thinking can do for you, its about time you discovered how this will bring about the changes in your life and your families life also.

Of course we all believe that positive thinking about a circumstance, person or situation will ensure that this turns out to be a good feeling or good event. Thinking bad thoughts, on the other hand, brings about hardships, failures, and things not going in the right direction in any event or situation. The good opportunities do not present itself, and the right doors are not opened for you.

However, positive thinking goes beyond any circumstance, person or situation. Experts believe that positive thoughts help prevent illnesses and diseases, that your positive thoughts can overcome them as your brain encourages your body’s immune system to fight and overcome these diseases.

These experts studying the mind have seen more benefits beyond what is already mentioned above, and that is, your positive thoughts can help people get what they really want in life. In brief, your thoughts can change your lifestyle from being poor to successful, misery and depression to happiness and fulfillment. This is somehow related to the concept of the Law of Attraction. If you really think and believe in what you want, the “universe” will come to your aid and assist you in accomplishing it.

So How Can You Be Positive?
This is the real challenge. We can and want to be positive, but there are other elements, like family or friends, which can and will bring about negative influences. We ourselves also sometimes suffer the”blues” and feel depressed. It is during such times that we have to focus and develop our positive attitude and bring back your thoughts to a more positive path.

There are different ways and means that you can achieve this attitude, but it all starts with dedication, for without it all the mentoring, meditation or visualization of your dreams will never stay focused. The true powers of your mind are just waiting to be discovered, it all depends on which effective technique one is executing to reach your means.

Learn to visualize positive thoughts while in the midst of work, any routine or while asleep. Explode your potential and think like the ‘gurus’ and the successful people out there and see how the “universe” comes to your aid. Are you ready for a change?

Aunali is a network maketer, blogger, and loves to write articles on topics such as mind and body development, helping others to develop thier networking skills and marketing of their products.

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Aunali Noordin
P.O. Box 41630, 00100,
Nairobi, Kenya
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In addition, I have found the work of Norman Vincent Peale as well as Napolleon Hill have been instrumental in helping me through, to reach the levels I have reached, where I am self employed, and building a great business, and client service.

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