Whilst it would be possible to answer the above question in one word with a brief explanation, I think you deserve and would like a more detailed answer. Essentially, we get from life exactly what we expect, and little more. To clarify this in more detail, we need to train ourselves to understand and apply certain laws, that have been proven over too long a period, with too many people, to be anything but true and accurate.

To understand this, consider the scenario where someone tells themselves that they have never had much luck, and will probably live most of their lives struggling in financial terms. This will, by definition, become a self fulfilling prophecy, because the person telling themselves this is actually strengthening their belief in a given situation. To ensure I am not misunderstood, please note that if someone is experiencing difficulty financially, it is important to acknowledge there is a problem, as this will allow them to know from where to travel to reach a better position. It's like travelling a road map. You need to know where you are, to get to where you wish to be. However, you also need to understand the laws of the universe.

In case you might be somewhat sceptical about this universe thing, the fact is that the universe is made up off energy, and energy is neither created, nor destroyed. It only moves around, from one source or form to another, and thoughts are also made up of energy. This is able to be explained in greater detail by scientists dealing with quantum physics. However, in simple terms, our brains transmit electrical waves, like electro-magnetic energy, and this is a similar energy to radio waves in the air, that are picked up by radio or TV units. It is understood, and constantly been proven, that thoughts are able to be transmitted in space from one person to others.

I do know that if this is your first contact with this concept, it may sound way out there, but it has been proven. Where I am going with this is that we need to be careful about that which we think. If we think and expect, with emphasis on the expectation part, we are more likely to attract that which we want into our lives. This is due to our thoughts influencing outside events that ultimately affect our lives. I know this is quite revolutionary for some people, but again, it has been proven.

It is for this very reason, that I always tell myself to not only expect situation x or y, but I also say 'Or better'. This is because, certainly from my experience, I have requested certain things, (expected them), and left the method of their arrival in my life open. I have then found that my various efforts have lead me to achieve results I wanted, as I was brought in contact with people that were able to help and so on.

Whilst it would be possible to answer the above question in one word with a brief explanation, I think you deserve and would like a more detailed answer. Essentially, we get from life exactly what we expect, and little more. To clarify this in more detail, we need to train ourselves to understand and apply certain laws, that have been proven over too long a period, with too many people, to be anything but true and accurate.

To understand this, consider the scenario where someone tells themselves that they have never had much luck, and will probably live most of their lives struggling in financial terms. This will, by definition, become a self fulfilling prophecy, because the person telling themselves this is actually strengthening their belief in a given situation. To ensure I am not misunderstood, please note that if someone is experiencing difficulty financially, it is important to acknowledge there is a problem, as this will allow them to know from where to travel to reach a better position. It's like travelling a road map. You need to know where you are, to get to where you wish to be. However, you also need to understand the laws of the universe.

In case you might be somewhat sceptical about this universe thing, the fact is that the universe is made up off energy, and energy is neither created, nor destroyed. It only moves around, from one source or form to another, and thoughts are also made up of energy. This is able to be explained in greater detail by scientists dealing with quantum physics. However, in simple terms, our brains transmit electrical waves, like electro-magnetic energy, and this is a similar energy to radio waves in the air, that are picked up by radio or TV units. It is understood, and constantly been proven, that thoughts are able to be transmitted in space from one person to others.

I do know that if this is your first contact with this concept, it may sound way out there, but it has been proven. Where I am going with this is that we need to be careful about that which we think. If we think and expect, with emphasis on the expectation part, we are more likely to attract that which we want into our lives. This is due to our thoughts influencing outside events that ultimately affect our lives. I know this is quite revolutionary for some people, but again, it has been proven.

It is for this very reason, that I always tell myself to not only expect situation x or y, but I also say 'Or better'. This is because, certainly from my experience, I have requested certain things, (expected them), and left the method of their arrival in my life open. I have then found that my various efforts have lead me to achieve results I wanted, as I was brought in contact with people that were able to help and so on.